It happens to some people more often than others, but taking a person home with you after a date (or for casual sex in general) can be a ton of fun. If the chemistry is there when you call people on a phone date and you decide to go out in person, decide of you are open to the prospect.
If you choose to let the person spend the night, hopefully you have thought about in advance. Make sure to have a toothbrush and towel available for the person, especially if they are planning on spending the night. Breakfast food is also something that you can look to have in the fridge and ready just in case. It is not recommended to leave someone that you don’t know in your house or apartment by themselves. If you don’t have these things, take them along on a store run if you want.
Often once people take someone home for sex, they think the night is over. It is entirely fine to leave with them somewhere after sex. Go grab a coffee or dessert and connect some more if the mood strikes. We know many people that love an ice cream sundae. Good whiskey or wine at a nice bar can also be a great option.
Conversely, it is entirely acceptable to kick someone out after the sex. If you need alone time, sleep, or just don’t want to be friends with the people you are sleeping with casually, go ahead and boot them (politely) out. Let them know if you had a good time, make sure they have all of their things, and send them on their way.
When you are planning a phone date or a meetup with a potential new casual sex partner, sometimes the chemistry is intense, it is best to be prepared for any scenario. Be safe, have fun, and start calling for dates and meet-ups, now is your time.