Have you found the Dom/sub of your life on a free kinky chat line, but they live far away from you? Or you simply need absolute privacy and anonymity, maybe because you can put yourself at serious risk if your family gets to know that you’re a kinkster, and you’re not ready to meet in person?

Dominate Sexually Even From Afar
Dominate Sexually Even From Afar

Don’t worry: domination phone sex is totally possible, and you’ll be able to make the most of your BDSM experience even if your partner is far apart!

The first rule to start experiencing dominance and submission on a dirty talk phone line is putting safety and consensuality first. Even if you’re not playing in person, you’ll have to make sure that all partners are on the same page at all times.
If you’re the Dominant partner, you must schedule time before the scene to discuss the sub’s boundaries and limits, as well as the games you’ll take part in.

Don’t forget to agree on a safe-word that the submissive can use to stop the session if things become uncomfortable. Also, remember that you’re not there together with them for aftercare. This doesn’t mean that you don’t have to provide them comfort after the scene: always schedule extra time for aftercare at the end of your call. Don’t hang up too early, when you’re not sure if they are fine and ready to move on with their day.

If you chat frequently with your sub on your favorite adult phone talk line, a great idea to make them enjoy the D/s dynamic is assigning them a list of tasks they have to complete before your next call. They can be as sexy and/or humiliating as you like, according to the other person’s limits: they’ll gain a prize for each task completed, and be punished for each one they fail.

The only limit is your fantasy: tell them to go to work without underwear, to use a wireless remote control love egg in public or to wear a collar that reminds them of your dominance at all times.