If you’ve never had phone sex, it’s about time you give it a try. Of course we think you should call in to one of our hot party lines and get your sexy groove on, but you can also give this a try with your partner at home.
An online news outlet recently surveyed phone-sex operators to ask if they had any tips to up the average Joe’s phone sex ante, so we thought we would report back what they had to say!
One of the easiest tips to make having a great phone sex conversation even better is to get to know your partner. Engage with them. Ask what they like, what are their interests. This can put you both at ease and make for a really hot and intimate exchange when you finally get around to talking dirty.
Being an active listener is another tip shared directly from a phone sex pro. Active listening is a commonly used technique in which you confirm what the speaker is saying. You can do this by repeating back or paraphrasing what they say and then building out or on top of it. This is great with kinky play, since your partner might not dive right in with what they want to do but hint around it. If you repeat back what they say and add a little more kink to it, before you know it that active listening lead in can build up to a super heated sexual engagement.
And phone sex operators would like to encourage you to call in and explore fantasies that you may not have lived out yet in real life or if you are not ready to talk to your real life partner about them yet. Sometimes the anonymity of being on the phone with a “sexy stranger” allows you to go places sexually that you may not feel comfortable going, even with a long term partner. When you phone in you can test the waters and see how a fantasy feels, knowing you have a safe outlet for a bit of “new to you” kinky fun!